Why not rule out being gentle when you are tough

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200. Plain and simple was your life,
loyally and diligently your hand.
You are now given rest,
sleep well and thank you.

201. Do not weep, that I am going from you,
be grateful
I've been with you for so long

202. Death is the gateway to life.

203. The wind blows a leaf from the tree,
one of many leaves.
The one leaf, you hardly notice it
because one is none.
But this one sheet alone
was part of our life.
Therefore this becomes one leaf alone
we miss again and again.

204. And there are always traces of your life somewhere,
Thoughts, images, moments and feelings.
They will always remind us of you
and never let you forget.

205. When you look at the sky at night,
you will feel as if all the stars were laughing,
because I live on one of them
because i am laughing at one of them. Antoine de Saint-Exupery

206. Only if one loves life and the earth so
that with her everything is lost
and seems to be over
one may attend the resurrection of the dead
and believe in a new world. ( Dietrich Bonhoeffer )

207. Love alone understands the secret
to give presents to others
and get rich yourself in the process. (Clemens Brentano)

208. To be alone
three words easy to say
and yet infinitely difficult to carry.

209. The day
nobody knows what he's giving
nobody knows what he's taking
only the evening teaches us to understand it.

210. He who lives in the heart of his loved ones,
is not dead.
Dead is he who is forgotten.

211. I have climbed the mountain,
who is still bothering you
so do not weep, dear ones,
I will be brought to rest.

212. My thoughts are not your thoughts,
and my ways are not your ways.

213. Your life has always been simple,
you never thought of yourself
only for yours
was your highest duty.

214. Your whole life was just creating,
you were always helpful to everyone,
you could have better days
but you never took the time to do this.

215. Whoever lived like you did in life,
who did his duty in this way,
he has given the highest,
he does not even die in death.

216. Do not consider me dead,
because I live with them
that I loved dearly

217. I climbed the mountain,
who still makes you trouble.
So don't cry, dear ones,
I've done my work.

218. He who lives in the memory of his loved ones,
is not dead, he is just distant.
Only those who are forgotten are dead.

219. So suddenly the farewell hour came
your good heart is broken.
Oh God, how difficult is this hour
how unspeakable is the pain.

220. Because things happen
that we cannot understand.
We stand by, powerless and mute.

221. You were so helpful and so good,
you died so early how it hurts
it's so hard to understand
that we won't see you again.

222. Who lived like you did in life,
who did his duty in this way,
he has given the highest,
he does not even die in death.

223. His circle of life has closed.

224. What you have given in life,
any thanks are too small for that.
You took care of your loved ones
from morning to night, day in, day out.
You were so humble in life
you only knew duty and work,
you were always satisfied with everything,
so sleep softly in quiet rest.

225. Death is a boundary stone of life,
but not love.

226. The days of man are like grass,
it blooms like the flower of the field.
If the wind passes over it, it is gone.

227. Being able to fall asleep when one is tired
and allowed to drop a burden
that one has worn for a long time,
is a wonderful thing. (Hermann Hesse)

228. Death is no downfall
but a transition
from the Erdenwanderweg
into eternity. (Cyprian)

229. Quiet and quiet, without a word,
did you leave your loved ones
You had a good heart
now it rests quietly, but unforgotten.

230. Maybe love also means learning,
to let someone go
know when to say goodbye
don't let our feelings
stand in the way
which is probably better in the end
for the ones we love Sergio Bambaren

231. You no longer see the fields green,
in which you happily and happily
You took care of your loved ones
from morning to night, day in, day out.
You were so humble in life
you only knew duty and work,
you were always satisfied with everything,
so sleep softly in quiet peace!

232. The thoughts of memory
form the bridge
beyond life.

233. In the moment in which one realizes
that the person you love
the strength to live leaves ...
everything becomes quiet and one understands
that you've lost your loved one.

234. You are no longer where you were,
but you're everywhere we are

235. In the moment in which one realizes
that the person you love
has left the strength to live, everything becomes still.
You can never again ask him for advice
no more rejoicing and laughing with him.
Here a person is missing forever and one understands
that you've lost your loved one.

236. Give your grief time,
then changes
this wanting to hold on in letting go,
the past beautiful in happy memories,
the pain of parting in the hope of reunion.
Our love will always connect us.

237. A voice that was so familiar to us is silent.
A person who was always there for us
is not alive anymore.
Past images pass by in your mind.
Memory is the only thing we have left.

238. Never again
are two such clear words!
No more
laugh or cry together,
never touch each other again,
never walk together again,
never speak to each other again,
no more.

239. Rest softly and sleep in peace,
thank you very much for your trouble.
Even if you are divorced from us,
in our hearts you never die.

240. Memory is what remains
it makes us look back gratefully
and miss her again and again.

241. You preceded us,
but always close to us.

242. In the moment in which one realizes
that the person you love
loses the strength to live
... everything becomes quiet.

243. Never again
can you ask him for advice
never again be happy with him,
never laugh with him again.

244. You are gone now, we are alone.
You wanted to still be with us.
Life was so nice with you
we thank you for all the love.

245. A warm heart has stopped beating,
helping hands have stopped giving.

246. If through a man
a little more love and kindness,
a little more light
and there was truth in the world;
his life had meaning.

247. The most precious human legacy
is the trace that his love is in our heart
left behind. (Irmgard Erath)

248. The separation hurts.
We only have the grateful one
Reminder of your great love.

249. People come into our lives
and accompany us for a while.
Some stay forever
because they leave traces
in our heart.

250th Happy Years!
Don't cry that it's over
thank you for having been.

251. What faithful hands do a lifetime,
you only understand at the end
when it rests forever.

252. You are no longer there,
where you were,
but you are everywhere
where we are.

253. Do not weep, that I am going from you,
be grateful
I've been with you for so long

254. At some point nothing of you will remain on earth
than the memory of your eyes
your laughter, your dreams, your hands-
in the hearts of the people who loved you
as you were!

255. "It will look like I'm dead
and that won't be true ...
And when you've comforted yourself
you will be glad you knew me
You will always be my friend,
you will feel like laughing with me.
And sometimes you'll open your window
just like that, for pleasure ....
And your friends will be very amazed
if you see,
that you look at the sky and laugh. ”Saint-Exupèry

256. Actually everything was taken for granted
that we talked to each other
thought together, laughed together,
quarreled, loved.
Actually, everything was taken for granted -
just not the end.

257. Do not stand by my grave and weep.
I am not here, I am not sleeping.
I am the thousand winds.
The diamond glitter on the snow.
I am the sunshine on ripe grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake up in the morning silence
I am the quick flap of wings
silent birds in circling flight.
I am the star, its mild light in the night.
Don't stand by my grave and cry
I'm not here ......

258. Wonderfully sheltered by good powers,
we confidently await what may come.
God is with us in the evening and in the morning
and certainly every new day. (D. Bonhoeffer)

259. A voice
who was so familiar to us is silent.
A person who was always there for us
is not alive anymore.

260. Age is a crown of honor,
on the way of righteousness
she will be found.

261. We do not want to mourn,
that we lost her
but be grateful
that we had them.

262. The more beautiful and full the memory,
the harder the separation is.
But gratitude transforms memory
into a quiet joy.
You wear the past beautiful
not like a sting
but like a precious gift in itself. (Dietrich Bonhoeffer)

263. Everything has its time:
a time of silence
a time of joy
a time of pain and sorrow
a time of grateful remembrance.

264. Usually only loss teaches us
about the value of things. (A. Schoppenhauer)

265. Death is the gateway to light
at the end of a life that has become difficult. (Francis of Assisi)

266. When you think of me,
do not be sad.
Better tell about me
and dare to laugh quietly.
Leave me a place between you
just like I had him in life.

267. "I thank life,
that gave me so much:

It gave me my laugh
it made me cry

and happiness leaves me
distinguish from suffering. "(V. Parra)

268. People we love
stay forever,
because they leave traces
in our hearts.

269. And there are always traces of your life somewhere:
Thoughts, images, moments and feelings.
They will always remind us of you.

271. You no longer see the green garden in which you once so happily managed.
You don't see the flowers bloom anymore because death took your strength away from you.
For what you have given us out of love, any thanks are too small for that.
What we have lost in you, we only know all by ourselves.

272. You and me

One of the two of us
leaves the other alone.
Then there is a great void
and silence be around him.

One of the two of us
goes to rest first.
The other squeezes, trembling
close two tired eyes.

One of the two of us
then think back alone
many years together
with sorrow and so much happiness.

One of the two of us
who sank deep in tears
nothing remains but sadness and longing
and a heart full of thanks. Herbert Caraway

273. Hope
is not the conviction
that something goes well,
but the certainty
that something makes sense
no matter how it turns out. (Vaclav Havel)

274. Lives are not years.
Lives are hours -
unforgettable minutes,
yes, seconds.

275. If you miss me,
look for me in your hearts
and if you find me
I am with you.

276. A long, fulfilled life is over.
We will miss your care.

277. Love - you were
Loyalty - you were
Goodness - you were
Everything - you were for me / us.

278 ... he just preceded.